Areas of Specialism

I primarily work with Queer, Neurodivergent, and Kink communities and bring lived experience as a member of these communities. I understand the unique issues that these communities can face and have significant experience working with these communities. This experience is further underpinned by training and CPD. Prior to training as a therapist, I spent many years working and volunteering for different LGBT+ organisations.

Queerness

I have extensive experience working within the LGBTQIA+ community. I began working in this area in 2007. I have a deep understanding of Queer culture and issues faced by our community. I work with clients around identity, belonging, minority stress, or trauma from homophobia/biphobia/transphobia. I also support clients with fostering Queer joy and resilience. I have written about Queer Spirituality and have experience working with survivors of conversion practices.

Autism

I have significant experience working with autistic clients and take a neuro-affirmative approach in my work. I recognise societal structures that impact autistic people in their daily lives. I can support autistic clients with understanding sensory profiles, unmasking, and acceptance. I conducted the first study into autistic people’s experiences of psychosexual therapy, which is currently being peer reviewed for publication.

Please note that I do not offer ABA. Research indicates that this harms autistic people.

Kink/BDSM

I offer Kink knowledgeable therapy underpinned by experience and training. I am able to work with clients to understand and explore their Kink/BDSM identities. I regularly work with clients around addressing safe Kink/BDSM practice, finding community, addressing internalised shame or navigating relational dynamics. I have experience working with clients in Dom/sub relationships and other dynamics. I welcome clients to bring their authentic selves and feel safe to explore any aspect of their Kink/BDSM life in therapy.

Chemsex

Chemsex is a particularly complex issue that is rapidly growing in the UK. Chemsex is the use of drugs such as Crystal Meth, GHB/GBL, or Methamphetamine to enhance sexual experiences for men who have sex with men. The reasons for Chemsex use are complicated and I offer specialist support for people who are wanting to address their Chemsex use. I work with clients in recovery and clients who are actively engaging with Chemsex.

Whether you are looking to stop Chemsex altogether or are wanting to better understand and take control of your use, I may be able to support you with this.

For further resources about Chemsex visit London Friend.

If any of these areas speak to you and you would like to arrange an initial appointment with me, please contact me.